My daughter was invited to homecoming by one boy. She said "yes, but we will go just as friends". He agreed. This was four weeks before homecoming. Tonight, three weeks before Homecoming Dance, she has been asked by another boy to "go steady" with him (they have not dated, but to them this means dating and liking each other and not dating anyone else). So, now she will be going to Homecoming with "a friend" while liking another guy. I am not sure "the friend" bargained for this. Now, I just found out tonight that my daughter posted on facebook that she is going steady...and she has not told "the friend". She feels confident that she is handling it all with grace....and tells me that times have changed since the 1980s. I worry. My daughter has also invited her cousin, a girl, to the group outing to the dance and dinner before dance. This was agreed to by "the friend" however, I do not know this guy well and he may be agreeing to something he does not feel comfortable with. His parents respect us; and, know of us. BUT, this situation seems tricky. How do I know if my daughter is handling this well? Do I call the parents? My daughter said she would talk to "the friend" in the morning about her new situation of accepting to go steady with another boy. She said she would accept "the friend" declining to go to the Homecoming Dance as "she understands why". Is my daughter messing up?!!! Please, help!! I am worried about the "friend's"