Promise Ring Etiquette
~Make It Mean Something~
Understanding promise ring etiquette will help you know why a
ring can symbolize so much feeling. It is a meaningful way to represent
a promise you make with someone you love, yourself or with God.
Back in the day a promise ring meant that a girl was going to
be engaged within a reasonable amount of time. It meant that her
heart was taken and she had promised herself to the man she
In the more modern times, a promise ring still can mean that
and so much more. A
promise ring is an outward symbol of a promise made. A
promise that is worth keeping.
am sure that there would be many parents of teenagers that would not
understand why their child is wearing a ring of this type. If it were
me, I would automatically conclude that they have taken a relationship
to the next level and I would begin to worry. It is not about that at all.
Promise ring etiquette shows that these
rings hold deeper meaning to the person who is wearing them
The ring in and of itself is an eternal circle, without a beginning or
an end. A promise should be made and kept forever.
Everyone who wears a promise ring can tell you why they are wearing it.
Here are some reasons why:
they have promised to love the person whom they share their ring with
they have promised to keep themselves chaste until marriage
they have promised to give themselves to God, by keeping the
commandments and being an example of a believer
they have promised to be a forever friend
they have made a promise to stay clean and sober
they have promised to live their religion in a manner that no one would
be able to question their beliefs
they have promised to find the strength to overcome their trials and
list could go on and on. The important part to understanding promise
ring etiquette is that it is something that the person wearing it or
giving it has thought about and found a deep meaning in.
When you are looking for a promise ring, it is good to remember that
they are more simple in
than, lets say, an engagement set. Because of this, you have so many
more options to find something that is very meaningful to you.
I was promised to my husband, he was in the Northern part of France. He
found me a simple silver band that had an inscription on the inside in
the language of the area. It said, "Feal~Da~Viken" or faithful forever.
I love that ring to this day. The uniqueness of it and the inscription
have found a forever place in my heart.
Promise ring etiquette shows that you
are free to choose whatever style grabs your heart and fits the promise
you are making
. Birthstones are fabulous in promise rings.
A popular thing to do is to
have the promise engraved
on the inside or outside of the ring. This brings the promise to light
and will be a wonderful reminder of what you are working so hard to do.
It is also nice that you can select a ring that will fit your budget as
well. They do not need to cost a lot of money.
Wearing a Promise Ring
The manner in which you wear your promise ring depends on the promise
you are making. If you are making a
promise of love to someone or God
, then it is good promise
ring etiquette to wear the ring on the left ring finger.
However if your promise is more friendship
or goal oriented
in nature, then the proper place to wear the ring is on the right ring
finger. In fact, you can wear the ring on any finger you choose, as
long as it has meaning for you there. Sometimes people will wear the
ring on a chain around their neck, and this is perfectly acceptable.
Giving A Promise Ring
If you have reached a place in your life where you want to share a
promise ring with someone else, it is a good idea to talk about what the ring would
to you and the other person.
you have found a wonderful person that you want to pledge your love to,
you need to talk to them. Good dating etiquette is all about good communication
You want the other person to share your ideas of love and honor them.
It is something that you can talk about in normal conversation. You
will know how they feel and what their ideas and goal are if you ask
When you have decided to move forward with a promise ring,
it is not appropriate to give it to someone the same way you would ask
them to marry you. Make
it a simple, special moment
. You could use
birthdays and holidays as special times.
ring etiquette is about the meaning of the ring. Using this will help
you understand why a ring is a beautiful symbol of a promise made.