Why would your fiance's ex-girlfriend want to add you on facebook?

by Alli Allard
(Puyallup,WA/USA)

I was curious because, I don't see the need to talk to any ones ex, it would only cause trouble. So in this particular situation, I prefer to just leave the ex's as ex's and in the past.. :) If you all have seen the movie Little Black Book... you will know what I'm talking about. What could she and I have to possibly exchange?

Aug 31, 2011
Ex-girlfriend Facebook Invite
by: Wendy (Modern Manners and Etiquette)

Thank you for your question... it is a good one.

I have to agree with you on this one. If you did not have any type of relationship prior to the Facebook invite, then it is not the time or place to start one with your fiance's ex-girlfriend.

Fortunately for you, you can decline the invitation. Not knowing her intentions and understanding why, it is very acceptable to decline. She may have the best intentions, and she may not.

Keeping the past in the past is the best thing for you to move forward with your fiance.

Best wishes!